Your student has finally settled in to the routine of classes, friends and fun. But, how has independence affected their maturity. Many parents are surprised by how much their student has changed. Most times that change is for the better. The student seems to learn the value of a dollar or they are even neater than they were before living on campus.
The challenge will be those home visits. Campus life tends to create a larger sense of independence. There are often no curfews and no one "nags" them about what to do and how to do it. The challenge will be for parents to recognize them as adults but remind students the structure of home is different than the structure of school. Compromises will have to be made with respect being the foundation on both parts. This is a conversation you may want to have before the Thanksgiving visit. Weekend home visits are pretty easy to handle but those longer visits can be a bit more to handle.
This blog was created to give parents and students insight on preparing for college campus living. Living on campus is such a huge change. Although this blog only offers suggestions, it is my sincere hope, the words you encounter will assist you in the transition to living on campus.
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